Self Confidence During Breaking Up With The One I Love

Article by Rick James

I look at her knowing this is the girl I have loved for almost 3 years now. Do I want her to go, of course not. She cannot do any wrong in my eyes and I am totally for her. I dont even want to imagine never holding her hand again or hearing her voice on the phone or stroking her lovely velvety soft black hair. Just the thought of losing her to someone else fills me with a longing to have her by my side like my soulmate for the rest of my life.

She just does not seem like the girl I used to know, its almost as though she sees me as a child in her eyes. But how do I hold it together knowing that a break up could be imminent? At least she has said we can go and see the movie Avatar together, so that has given me some hope. I mean, a drowning man is going to reach out for whatever he can find; and at the moment I am drowning in sorrow. Sometimes I let her feel my pain by just acting very negative in front of her, simply because I find it so hard to say something like, “Darling cant we just forget about breaking up”. That takes alot of courage and self confidence as you dont want to look like a wimp or a pathetic loser. Worse still I know if I was like that she would not give me the time of day because she likes a man with a strong character, in other words shes quite a tough girl.

However since I read the ebook “Secret Social Weapon” it has helped my confidence tremendously. In fact the author recommends reading it or some of it everyday for 30 days for the best results. I will provide you with a link for it at the end of the article. But please, if you are going through a break up of course you can give your partner or wife some space by getting out of the house; and just allowing them some time to breathe. Women just dont want a man around when they are feeling agitated. So if you know been around her is getting on her nerves just disappear for a few hours and she will likely be more accepting of you on your return, though it is not uncommon for a woman to take days to get back to her happier self. With my girlfriend its always at least 3 days, but having read the ebook, you can read it in under an hour, its really made a world of difference for me. Heres hoping it will help you to. All the best, Rick James.

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